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This is a good question... It is what I call "something" We all have different looks that actracts us to someone but if a lady walks by and whatever that something is that makes me look twice, stop and go, Hummmmm? Then I know that she has it. If whatever she has cant at least make me look twice? Then I just keep on going...
Good Man here, Bad all the right ways behind close doors, 1959 Harley Panhead Custom, professional, presently make plenty enough money, I also like a woman to be both good and very bad as well. I am in Louisiana but moving to Pascagoula, Miss April 2008.
Will be buying a boat when I get settled to fish as well.
SO I NEED TO MEET SOMEONE THERE, go riding, show me around...
I agree it's the eyes first, they tell me alot of what i need to know about a person..I just posted a message about what I look for in a mans profile and my comment was...Close up pics, with the shades off...I WANT TO SEE THOSE EYES, GUYS...then it's all the other aspects of that person, and how they blend together to make him who he is...
SNJGal write:
well since the advent of online dating I would say the ability to write and speak in coherent sentences...lol. Since that is usually the first contact. Then (as a recent new guy can tell you) I look at the eyes. If the eyes smile with the mouth it is a very good thing. If there is humor and honesty in them even better. After that... the hands...love good hands cause they can say so much...even more than words at times. But over all it is the entire make up of the person that keeps me attracted.
This is a great question. For me it's many different things. I'm attracted to different types of women, but they all have certain things in common. No matter how hot they are (or think they are), if they can't keep up with me in a conversation, they're done. If they can hold my interest, make me laugh, make me think, and get my hormones going all at the same time, I'm all theirs. Nothing sexier than a smart woman with a sense of humor with nice curves to boot. There you have it. Short, tall, 40 pounds overweight or bang on, it's all about the mind. I'd rather take care of it myself than wake up next to a stupid woman, no matter what she looks like.
First thing would be appearance.(No mustache, must have teeth) Second would be manorism(politeness, the ability to carry a conversation without interuption). And third, sense of humour. (Very important)Most important:
HONESTY!
In the B K world: Being able to communicate your point, and having a sense of humor!!!!
In the real world: The posture in which he carries himself. Confidant, or not. Conceit, or not.
all are important weather they're first or not. But nothing can take the place of honesty and loyalty. If these don't exist, none of the firsts make any difference in my opinion.
I would have to say he will have to have a sense of humor. To be with someone like me he also needs to be in touch with life and not into himself.
Now the rest in this order
Communication, trust, honesty, his arms to hold me tight, his chest so I can lay on it and hear his heart beat knowing he is real and alive, his eyes the way they dance when you wake up with him watching you, and his lips as he smiles down at you.
Ok, I may have found that. We will see when we meet.
buggerbender write:
I naturally beautiful woman that is intelligent, and carries herself with confidence and style without arrogance will catch my attention every time.
Of course if every time she goes out in a faded pair of blue jeans the market price of denim jumps 10 points, that's definitely a bonus as well.
SNJGal write:
well since the advent of online dating I would say the ability to write and speak in coherent sentences...lol. Since that is usually the first contact. Then (as a recent new guy can tell you) I look at the eyes. If the eyes smile with the mouth it is a very good thing. If there is humor and honesty in them even better. After that... the hands...love good hands cause they can say so much...even more than words at times. But over all it is the entire make up of the person that keeps me attracted.
Well said K.
But don't forget the "looks". You know, the ones that need no verbal attachments.
I know what ya'll are thinkin... But, I mean all of em, including the lust ones.
well since the advent of online dating I would say the ability to write and speak in coherent sentences...lol. Since that is usually the first contact. Then (as a recent new guy can tell you) I look at the eyes. If the eyes smile with the mouth it is a very good thing. If there is humor and honesty in them even better. After that... the hands...love good hands cause they can say so much...even more than words at times. But over all it is the entire make up of the person that keeps me attracted.
bikeman542a write:
I'm beginning to think that what attracts me is if a woman is completely insane!!!!
Doc that is the knight in shinning armor thing--damsel in distress--we all aren't in distress even if we are going thru a rough time in the present
sooooooooooooo look for the one who is whole dearest Doc--you don't need to complete someone--you need to find the woman that will compliment you--she is out there and you will find her
Man Seeme ya hit a nerve on that one!! When I was a kid my mother used to tell me to stop being everyone's Knight in shining armor!! Chit sorry Ma, I still ain't learned!! But I am workin on it!!
Doc--we all need someone to take care of us at times---whether it is to make chicken soup when we have the flu or because life chit hits us in the head--the thing is it should be shared
there are times i need to be pampered--and there are times i like to pamper
no relationship is 100/100 all the time it can be 130/70 this week and next week 65/135--you never know--but when it is lopsided all the time is when there is a problem
bikeman542a write:
I'm beginning to think that what attracts me is if a woman is completely insane!!!!
Doc that is the knight in shinning armor thing--damsel in distress--we all aren't in distress even if we are going thru a rough time in the present
sooooooooooooo look for the one who is whole dearest Doc--you don't need to complete someone--you need to find the woman that will compliment you--she is out there and you will find her
Man Seeme ya hit a nerve on that one!! When I was a kid my mother used to tell me to stop being everyone's Knight in shining armor!! Chit sorry Ma, I still ain't learned!! But I am workin on it!!
I agree with Seeme on this one Doc...learn to let go of the things you cannot change, not everyone can or wants to be "saved". Those that don't need anything from you other than you, for who you are, are the ones you should have in your life. It's a one day at a time thing Doc....The path to a wonderful life is going through it side by side...not one in front of the other constantly having to clear the way...kind of a United front. To many ask you to come to their rescue...learn to say no babe....learn to say no.
bikeman542a write:
I'm beginning to think that what attracts me is if a woman is completely insane!!!!
Doc that is the knight in shinning armor thing--damsel in distress--we all aren't in distress even if we are going thru a rough time in the present
sooooooooooooo look for the one who is whole dearest Doc--you don't need to complete someone--you need to find the woman that will compliment you--she is out there and you will find her
Man Seeme ya hit a nerve on that one!! When I was a kid my mother used to tell me to stop being everyone's Knight in shining armor!! Chit sorry Ma, I still ain't learned!! But I am workin on it!!
bikeman542a write:
I'm beginning to think that what attracts me is if a woman is completely insane!!!!
Doc that is the knight in shinning armor thing--damsel in distress--we all aren't in distress even if we are going thru a rough time in the present
sooooooooooooo look for the one who is whole dearest Doc--you don't need to complete someone--you need to find the woman that will compliment you--she is out there and you will find her
